Marriage and Gorean Whatahoodie!

First off, I was part of the Gorean community for many years. I was a slave, I lived with a Gorean man and went through the whole gauntlet of slave issues. Needless to say I was a horrible slave. I finally meet a Gorean man and I feel in love, we married, and we have children. We do not consider ourself very Gorean anymore. With kids, and daily family life, the philosophy what makes a person Gorean doesn't mend very well. I have taken values, ideas and understanding from the Gorean philosophy and we often discuss them but they do not rule how we run our lives. Personally I think it takes a very serious and strick committment to follow the Gorean philosphy.